Work hard. Work a lot. Let the work go once you create it. Don’t let any of it get too precious. Work harder. Make good friends and stick with them. Don’t take yourself too seriously.
I always feel the need to justify my interest in overtly feminine things like sewing and feeding people because they aren’t intellectual interests and I am an Educated Lady. But you know what, fuck you. I can fend for myself and debate shit out of the park, I just want to do it when your face is visible so I can scream victoriously when I have destroyed you.